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Who is your master?

To the Stoics, freedom, true power and greatness came from one thing: being in command of yourself.


For all of Rome's monumental architecture, much of it paid for by the wealthy and the powerful, it's easy to forget that one of the greatest people who ever lived walked its streets almost unnoticed.

Epictetus, whose name literally means “acquired one”, was a slave. He spent three decades of his life owned by another human being, working anonymously in Nero's court. Slowly, he earned his freedom, both literally and through philosophy, and he became one of Rome's greatest philosophers.

He wasn't just your favourite philosopher's favourite philosopher. He was the favourite philosopher of two emperors, the same emperors whose temples, arches and buildings he walked among. Hadrian went to Greece to hear him teach. A generation later, through one of his students, a copy of his lectures made its way to Marcus Aurelius, the philosopher king.

How did this happen?

Epictetus lived the Stoic idea that real power lies in command of yourself. You could command armies. You could live on a huge estate. But if you were a slave to your desires, a slave to your fears or a slave to things outside your control, you were not powerful at all.

In his view, the most important question there was came down to four words: who is your master? After years of studying Stoicism, Epictetus could give an answer that few emperors could.

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I am my own master.

EPICTETUS

Freedom, true power and greatness, to the Stoics, is being in command of yourself.

TRY THIS TODAY

Ask yourself honestly: what is in charge of me right now? A fear, a habit, a craving or someone else's opinion? Name it. Then make one choice today that is yours, not its.

A note on sources

Much of what I've learned about Stoicism comes from Ryan Holiday. Find more of his writing at dailystoic.com and ryanholiday.net.

While I have edited much of this content, there are some cases where I have taken Ryan Holiday's words directly. I've included them because I think they are powerful and will be helpful for you. They are also helpful for me, and I've put them here so I can learn and understand more myself.

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